1.1 Why Do Women Choose to Become Surrogate Mothers?

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Women choose to become a surrogate mother for many reasons. Most want to help others while creating new opportunities for their own families. At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we have supported hundreds of women throughout their surrogacy journeys.

Surrogate mothers help make parenthood possible for intended parents facing infertility, pregnancy loss, or medical challenges. They also help LGBTQ+ families grow. Many women feel inspired by their love of pregnancy, financial goals, and the opportunity to make a lasting impact.

Why Women Choose Surrogacy

Many women first consider becoming a surrogate after seeing someone they love struggle with infertility. They think, “If I can carry a baby, maybe I can carry for you.” Others are inspired by friends or family members who’ve done it—and felt the joy that comes with helping create a family.

Some discover surrogacy online. What starts as simple curiosity becomes something more: “I can do that too.”

Surrogacy is a mix of compassion and opportunity—a way to help others who desire to be parents through gestational surrogacy while creating a better future for your own family.

Hear from Our Surrogate Mothers

At GSHC, we walk alongside our surrogate mothers through every step of the process. If you're curious what it’s really like, we invite you to read personal stories from real surrogates—sharing their honest thoughts on the experience, the challenges, and the rewards.

More stories from other surrogates: Real experiences, challenges, and rewards

Contact GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation If...

  • You Loved Being Pregnant: If you had a healthy, enjoyable pregnancy and loved the experience, surrogacy could be a way to relive that joy—while making a lasting impact for someone else.
  • You Want to Create a Better Future for Your Family: Compensation from surrogacy can help you:
  1. Pay off debts
  2. Make home improvements or buy a home
  3. Support your children’s education
  4. Save for long-term goals
  5. Build financial security

It’s a way to give generously and move your family forward.

Do You Feel Called to Help Others?

Surrogacy is one of the most selfless gifts you can give. If you’ve ever wanted to help someone build a family—and feel that deep sense of purpose—it may be the perfect path for you.

Do You See Surrogacy as Empowering? Many surrogates describe the experience as powerful and emotional. It’s a way to take control, use your strength, and create lasting change in someone’s life.
Do You Want to Teach Your Kids About Giving? If you’re a mom already, surrogacy sets a beautiful example. Your children will witness the power of kindness and generosity—and how one person can make a big difference.
If You Desire to Join a Supportive Community? Surrogacy brings you into a caring network of other surrogates, intended parents, and professionals who respect your decision and walk with you throughout the journey.

Commonly asked questions

🌸 Is Surrogacy Right for Me?

What Motivates Women to Become a Surrogate Mother?

Women choose to become a surrogate mother for many reasons, but most share a combination of emotional and practical motivations. While helping intended parents build a family is often the biggest reason, many women also enjoy pregnancy, want to create financial security for their families, and value being part of something meaningful.

The most common motivations include:

  • A compelling desire to help families grow: For many women, the inspiration begins close to home. Watching a friend, sibling, coworker, or relative struggle with infertility often sparks a powerful realization: "If I can carry a healthy baby, I can change someone's life forever." This deep sense of empathy and the desire to share the joy of parenthood are at the heart of the surrogacy journey.
  • A genuine love for pregnancy and childbirth: Many surrogates describe their own pregnancies as healthy, positive, and deeply rewarding experiences. Once their families are complete, they may miss being pregnant but do not wish to raise additional children of their own. Surrogacy allows them to experience pregnancy again while giving another family an extraordinary gift.
  • Discovering the impact through community: Social media, podcasts, YouTube videos, and personal surrogate stories have helped more women learn about surrogacy firsthand. Hearing about the emotional rewards and seeing intended parents welcome their baby often transforms curiosity into a personal calling.

Finding Purpose Through Surrogacy

  • Financial empowerment and family goals: While surrogacy is rooted in compassion, compensation creates meaningful opportunities for a surrogate's own family. Many women use their compensation to pay off debt, purchase a home, build savings, fund their children's education, or create long-term financial stability.
  • Teaching children about kindness and generosity: Many mothers choose surrogacy because it allows their own children to see the impact that one person can have on another family's life.
  • Joining a supportive community: Surrogate mothers build lasting relationships with intended parents, fertility specialists, case managers, and fellow surrogates throughout the journey.
  • Industry perspective: Organizations such as RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association help raise awareness about the emotional and physical challenges many intended parents experience while building their families. This is one reason many women feel called to become surrogates.

At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we have found that the most successful surrogates are women who are motivated by both compassion and a desire to create positive opportunities for their own families.

Wondering if you qualify? Tell us a little about yourself, and a GSHC surrogate coordinator will contact you to discuss your eligibility and answer your questions.


The most successful surrogates are women who feel called to help others while also creating opportunities for their own families.



— Dr. Jia Shen

How Does Surrogacy Compensation Work?

Surrogacy compensation is designed to fully support you throughout your journey while recognizing the immense dedication, physical commitment, and generosity required to help another family grow. While surrogacy is rooted in compassion, compensation can also create life-changing opportunities for your own family.

At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, a first-time surrogate can typically earn $60,000 to $80,000+, while experienced surrogates often earn significantly more on future journeys. Surrogate compensation varies based on your experience, location, and pregnancy history.

Many women view surrogacy as a path to long-term financial freedom because it empowers them to achieve meaningful family goals, including:

  • Eliminate debt: Pay off student loans, credit cards, or car payments to reduce financial stress.
  • Invest in education: Secure your children's future by funding college tuition or building a savings plan.
  • Secure a home: Use compensation toward a down payment, major renovations, or long-term housing goals.
  • Build financial security: Create an emergency fund or jumpstart long-term investment plans.
  • Create lasting memories: Fund family vacations and experiences that will last a lifetime.

Surrogacy compensation is not a single payment. Instead, your compensation package is typically structured throughout the journey and may include base compensation, monthly allowances, and reimbursements for approved pregnancy-related expenses.

To better understand your potential earnings, GSHC offers tools that help estimate compensation based on your experience, location, and pregnancy history. You can also explore stories from past surrogates to learn how compensation helped them achieve their personal and financial goals.

Interested in learning more about your potential compensation? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and walk you through the next steps.

Is Becoming a Surrogate Mother Right for You?

If you are considering this path, you may be wondering if surrogacy is a good fit for your life and your family. Many women who join GSHC share similar values, experiences, and goals that make them excellent candidates for a successful surrogacy journey.

Signs You May Be a Great Surrogate Candidate

You may be a good fit if:

  • You value long-term financial stability: You are looking for meaningful ways to strengthen your family's future. Many surrogates use their compensation to pay off debt, purchase a home, return to school, or build savings for their children.
  • You loved being pregnant: You had healthy pregnancies, enjoyed the experience, and felt empowered by childbirth.
  • You want to make a lasting difference: You understand that intended parents may have spent years navigating infertility, pregnancy loss, or other family-building challenges. Helping them welcome a child can be an unforgettable experience.
  • You want to model generosity for your children: Many mothers choose surrogacy because it teaches their children empathy, kindness, and the powerful impact one person can have on another family's life.
  • You want to be part of a supportive community: Surrogacy connects you with intended parents, fertility specialists, case managers, and a community of fellow surrogates who support you throughout the journey.

What Are the Basic Requirements to Become a Surrogate Mother?

To help ensure a safe and healthy journey for both the surrogate and the baby, GSHC maintains clear qualification guidelines. In general, applicants must meet the following requirements:

  • Age requirement: Be between 21 and 38 years old.
  • Legal status: Be a U.S. citizen or a Legal Permanent Resident (Green Card holder).
  • Pregnancy history: Be raising at least one child and have a history of at least one uncomplicated, full-term pregnancy.
  • C-section history: Have had fewer than three prior C-sections.
  • Health requirements: Maintain a healthy BMI under 30.
  • Lifestyle requirements: Be physically and emotionally healthy, maintain a stable home environment, and be smoke- and drug-free. Applicants must also be able to pass medical, psychological, and background screenings.

Find Out If You Qualify

Wondering if you meet the qualifications? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and help you determine if becoming a surrogate mother is right for you.

🩺 Qualifications to Become a Surrogate Mother?

What Medical and Psychological Screenings Are Required to Become a Surrogate Mother?

Every potential surrogate begins with an initial intake and qualification process before moving into the full medical screening. During this stage, GSHC reviews your application, pregnancy history, medical records, and background information to determine whether you meet the basic program requirements and are ready to be matched with intended parents.

Once you match with intended parents, the fertility clinic completes a comprehensive medical and psychological screening. These evaluations help protect your health, the future baby, and the intended parents. They also help prepare everyone for a successful surrogacy journey.

The Comprehensive Screening Process Typically Includes

  • Medical history review: Fertility specialists review your previous pregnancies, deliveries, medical records, and any pregnancy-related complications.
  • Physical health evaluation: Fertility specialists evaluate your overall health, body mass index (BMI), and reproductive health to confirm you meet the fertility clinic's medical requirements.
  • Laboratory testing: Your care team may order bloodwork and other tests to screen for infectious diseases, hormone levels, and other medical conditions.
  • Psychological evaluation: A licensed mental health professional evaluates your emotional readiness, support system, and understanding of the surrogacy journey.
  • Background screening: GSHC conducts a background review to help protect everyone involved in the process.
  • Lifestyle evaluation: Applicants must maintain a stable home environment and remain smoke- and drug-free.

What to Expect During the Screening Process

Every fertility clinic has slightly different requirements. This is why GSHC works closely with you throughout the process and explains each step along the way. We also encourage you to review 5.1 Your Guide to Medical Screening for Surrogacy with GSHC, where we provide a more detailed explanation of the screening process and what to expect.

Questions About Your Medical History?

Have questions about your medical history or whether you qualify? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and help you determine your eligibility.

Can I Become a Surrogate Mother if I Have Had a C-Section or a Miscarriage?

Yes.

A prior C-section or miscarriage does not automatically disqualify you from becoming a surrogate mother. Every situation is unique, which is why GSHC carefully reviews your medical history to determine whether it is safe for you to carry another pregnancy.

Your Eligibility Depends on Several Factors

Eligibility depends on several factors, including:

  • Your C-section history: In general, applicants may qualify if they have had fewer than three C-sections, experienced uncomplicated deliveries, and have fully healed from previous pregnancies.
  • Your miscarriage history: Having one or more miscarriages does not automatically prevent you from becoming a surrogate. Our medical team will review the circumstances, timing, and any underlying factors to determine eligibility.
  • Your overall health: We evaluate your physical and emotional well-being to ensure you can safely carry a pregnancy.
  • Your pregnancy history: Previous healthy, full-term pregnancies are an important part of the screening process.
  • Your current lifestyle: Applicants should maintain a stable home environment and be smoke- and drug-free.

How GSHC Evaluates Your Medical History

Every applicant completes a comprehensive medical screening before moving forward. This process helps protect both the surrogate and the future baby while giving intended parents confidence throughout the journey.

If you have questions about your medical history, we encourage you to review 5.1 Your Guide to Medical Screening for Surrogacy with GSHC, where we explain the screening process in greater detail and outline the factors our team evaluates before approval.

Wondering If You Qualify?

Not sure if your medical history qualifies? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and help you determine if becoming a surrogate mother is right for you.

How Much Does a Surrogate Mother Get Paid?

Surrogate compensation varies based on your experience, location, and the details of your journey. At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, first-time surrogates typically earn $60,000 to $80,000+. Experienced surrogates may qualify for even higher compensation packages.

Your compensation supports you throughout the journey. It also recognizes the extraordinary dedication, physical commitment, and generosity required to help another family grow.

What Is Included in a Surrogate Compensation Package?

Your total compensation package may include:

  • Base compensation: First-time surrogates receive base compensation starting at $55,000+, with experienced surrogates potentially earning $80,000 or more.
  • Monthly allowances: Receive a monthly allowance to help cover everyday expenses throughout your journey.
  • Surrogacy milestone payments: Additional payments may be available for medication compliance, embryo transfer, and confirmation of pregnancy.
  • Maternity support: Benefits may include maternity clothing allowances, housekeeping assistance, and postpartum support.
  • Medical and legal coverage: Intended parents cover approved surrogacy-related medical expenses, legal support, and insurance-related costs.
  • Additional benefits: Depending on your journey, you may qualify for compensation related to carrying multiples, breast milk pumping, travel expenses, lost wages, or physician-ordered bedrest.

How Do Surrogates Use Their Compensation?

Many women use their compensation to create long-term financial stability and achieve important family goals, such as:

  • Paying off debt: Eliminate student loans, car payments, or credit card balances.
  • Purchasing or improving a home: Invest in your family's future.
  • Saving for education: Build college savings plans for your children.
  • Building financial security: Create emergency savings or long-term investments.
  • Creating family memories: Fund vacations and experiences that last a lifetime.

Learn About Your Personalized Compensation

Because every journey is unique, your final surrogacy compensation package will be personalized based on your qualifications, location, and experience.

Curious about your potential surrogate compensation? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to discuss your eligibility, answer your questions, and walk you through your estimated compensation package.

🤝 The Application Process

What Are the 7 Steps in Order to Become a Surrogate Mother? The GSHC Surrogate Intake Process

At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we strive to make the process of becoming a surrogate mother as smooth, transparent, and supportive as possible. Our experienced team will guide you through every stage, from your first conversation to matching with intended parents.

Steps 1–3: Getting Started

Here are the first three steps of the GSHC surrogate intake process:

  • Step 1: Share some basic information (Estimated time: 1 minute)
  • Step 2: Complete your surrogate profile (Estimated time: 20 minutes)
    • If you qualify, you will create a secure account and provide information about your pregnancy history, medical background, support system, lifestyle, and motivations for becoming a surrogate.
  • Step 3: Meet with a surrogate coordinator (Estimated time: 1 hour)
    • One of our experienced surrogate coordinators will discuss your goals, explain the medical and legal process, review compensation, and answer your questions.

Steps 4–7: Completing the Intake Process

  • Step 4: Medical record review (Estimated time: 2 to 4 weeks)
    • With your authorization, our team will gather and review your prenatal and delivery records to ensure you have a safe medical foundation for another pregnancy.
  • Step 5: Background screening (Estimated time: 1 week)
    • GSHC conducts a comprehensive background screening to help protect everyone involved and provide peace of mind throughout the journey.
  • Step 6: Create your profile and review agreements (Estimated time: 1 to 2 weeks)
    • We will work with you to build a personalized surrogate profile and review the standard program agreements.
  • Step 7: Match with intended parents (Estimated time: 2 to 4 weeks)
    • Our team carefully considers communication styles, preferences, family goals, and location to identify the right intended parents for you before moving into the clinical phase.

Ready to Take the First Step?

Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and guide you through the next steps.

"The most successful surrogate journeys begin with compassion, trust, and open communication between everyone involved." — Dr. Jia Shen

Who Protects Me During the Surrogacy Legal Process?

You are not expected to navigate the legal process on your own. Throughout your surrogacy journey, GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation coordinates the legal process and connects you with experienced reproductive attorneys. This helps protect and support everyone involved.

Because surrogacy laws vary by state, GSHC customizes legal guidance based on your location and the details of your journey.

Here's What You Can Expect

  • Experienced legal partnerships nationwide: GSHC has established relationships with reproductive attorneys across the United States and will help coordinate the appropriate legal resources for your surrogacy journey.
  • Legal protections for everyone involved: The legal process is designed to protect the surrogate, intended parents, and the future child while clearly outlining each person's rights and responsibilities.
  • Ethical best practices: Organizations such as the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) and the CDC emphasize clear legal agreements, informed consent, and ethical standards throughout the surrogacy journey.
  • Intended parents cover legal expenses: Legal fees associated with preparing and reviewing surrogacy agreements are paid for by the intended parents.
  • State-specific legal guidance: Since surrogacy laws vary throughout the country, experienced attorneys help ensure all agreements comply with the laws in your state.
  • Clear and transparent agreements: Legal contracts establish expectations surrounding compensation, communication, medical decisions, and everyone's responsibilities throughout the journey.
  • Additional legal guidance is always an option: If you would like a second legal opinion outside of GSHC's attorney network, you may do so at your own expense.

Learn More About Surrogacy Laws

We also encourage you to explore our Surrogate Legal Resources page. There, you can learn more about surrogacy laws and legal considerations throughout the United States and other countries.

Have Questions About the Legal Process?

Have questions about the legal process in your state? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to explain how the process works and guide you through the next steps.

Why Choose GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation?

Choosing a surrogacy agency is one of the most important decisions you will make during your journey. At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we believe every surrogate deserves respect, professional guidance, and compassionate support from application through delivery and beyond.

Since 2016, we have helped build hundreds of families by providing a safe, transparent, and supportive experience for both surrogates and intended parents.

Here's What Makes GSHC Different

  • Experienced team: Our staff includes experienced professionals, and many have firsthand experience with surrogacy themselves.
  • Personalized support: From your first conversation to delivery day, dedicated surrogate coordinators guide you through every step of the process.
  • Comprehensive screening: Medical, psychological, and background screenings help protect your health and well-being.
  • Legal and case management support: Our team helps keep every stage of the journey organized and transparent.
  • Partnerships with leading fertility clinics: We work with top fertility specialists throughout the United States to provide excellent care.
  • Competitive compensation packages: Your experience, location, and journey details help determine your compensation package.
  • Proven experience: GSHC has supported 800+ successful journeys and has been helping families grow since 2016.

Our Commitment to Every Surrogate

At GSHC, we do more than coordinate a process. We strive to create a positive experience where every surrogate feels safe, informed, supported, and celebrated throughout her journey.

Start Your Surrogacy Journey Today

Ready to learn what your surrogacy journey could look like? Share a few details about yourself, and one of our surrogate coordinators will personally reach out to answer your questions and help you explore your next steps.

"Every surrogate deserves clear communication, expert guidance, and support throughout every stage of her journey." — Dr. Jia Shen

❤️ Real Success Stories

⭐ Jennifer G. — Surrogate

★★★★★ Jennifer G.

Surrogate Mother

"I absolutely loved working with GSHC as a gestational carrier. I was matched with a couple quickly and was able to communicate with them throughout my journey."

Read Jennifer's Full Story

"I absolutely loved working with GSHC as a gestational carrier. I was matched with a couple quickly and was able to communicate with them through my entire journey. I definitely recommend GSHC to anyone who is wanting to be a surrogate ❤️. Jia is amazing."

⭐ Valiena S. — Surrogate

★★★★★ Valiena S.

Surrogate Mother

"From the very beginning, I always felt excited, supported, and important. Every member of the staff genuinely cared about my journey."

Read Valiena's Full Story

"From the very beginning of my experience with this agency I always felt excited, supported, and important. I feel every member of the staff takes the time to genuinely get to know you and offer support or answer any questions. I love that members of the staff have also been surrogates, so they understand the emotions, questions, and process of becoming a surrogate. They make sure you find the perfect match for a memorable experience. I felt a great deal of compassion for my feelings and journey every step of the way!"

⭐ Alice — Surrogate

★★★★★ Alice

Surrogate Mother

"This agency goes absolutely above and beyond for their surrogates. The entire team feels much more like family than a business."

Read Alice's Full Story

"This agency goes absolutely above and beyond for their surrogates, from driving us all over the place to attending all of our appointments, the thoughtful gifts, daily check-ins, and handling any issues that may arise at any time of day or night. I could not have asked for more throughout my journey. With GSHC it was smooth sailing. I got to know the owner and manager very well, and the whole team feels much more like family than a business. Love these ladies to the moon and back and can't wait to do another cycle with them. #teamgshc!!!!"

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