7.12 Why Surrogates Must Disclose Relationship Changes During the Surrogacy Journey | GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation

At GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, we are committed to maintaining the highest ethical and medical standards to ensure a safe, successful surrogacy journey. If a surrogate develops a new romantic or sexual relationship during the surrogacy process, it is essential to disclose this information to the agency. Transparency is key to ensuring compliance with medical, legal, and ethical requirements, protecting the surrogate, the intended parents, and the baby.

1. Medical Risks of a New Sexual Partner During Surrogacy

• Infectious Disease Screening: A new sexual partner introduces potential risks of STDs, HIV, hepatitis, or other communicable diseases, which could severely impact both the surrogate mother and the baby.
• Fertility Clinic & Agency Protocols: Many top fertility clinics in the U.S. and leading surrogacy agencies(including GSHC Surrogacy) require ongoing health screenings for surrogates and, in some cases, their partners, to ensure a safe pregnancy.

2. Legal & Contractual Compliance in Surrogacy

• Surrogacy Agreement Compliance: Most gestational surrogacy contracts mandate full disclosure of relationship changes to prevent legal and medical risks.
• Parental Rights Considerations: If a surrogate is married but enters a new relationship, this could create legal complications regarding presumed parental rights, which must be proactively addressed.
• State-Specific Surrogacy Laws: Surrogacy laws vary by state, and GSHC ensures that all cases comply with California surrogacy laws, New York surrogacy laws, and other state regulations.

3. Ethical & Agency Responsibilities | GSHC’s Commitment to Transparency

• Trust & Communication with Intended Parents: Intended parents working with GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation expect full honesty regarding any factors that may impact their surrogacy journey.
• GSHC Surrogacy’s Policies: As a leading surrogacy agency in the U.S., GSHC requires surrogates to immediately report any changes in relationship status to take appropriate medical and legal precautions.

4. Emotional & Psychological Considerations for Surrogates

• Emotional Stability During Pregnancy: A new relationship, separation, or divorce can cause emotional stress, which may affect the surrogate’s well-being and overall pregnancy experience.
• Impact on Support System: If a new partner is unsupportive of the surrogacy, conflicts may arise, affecting the overall experience for both the surrogate mother and the intended parents.

How to Report a Relationship Change to GSHC Surrogacy

If you develop a new relationship or experience a change in marital status (e.g., separation, divorce proceedings) during the surrogacy journey, you must inform your GSHC case manager immediately. The agency will:

✅ Gather necessary details to ensure medical and legal compliance.

✅ Arrange for required health screenings for a new partner.

✅ Communicate updates to the intended parents, if necessary.

About GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation

GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation is a leading surrogacy agency offering:

• Personalized surrogate matching for intended parents.
• A rigorous screening process for surrogates to ensure quality and safety.
• Expert legal and medical support throughout the entire surrogacy journey.
• Multilingual case management, including Mandarin support for international clients.
• Collaboration with top fertility clinics across the U.S.

As an industry leader in surrogacy services, GSHC has helped bring over 800 babies into the world while maintaining ethical, transparent, and supportive surrogacy practices.

Final Thought

Disclosing a new romantic or sexual relationship during surrogacy is not about judgment—it is a critical step to ensure the safety, medical integrity, and legal protection of everyone involved. By maintaining open communicationwith GSHC Surrogacy & Egg Donation, surrogates help ensure a smooth, ethical, and successful surrogacy journey for all parties involved.