1.3 8 Common Misconceptions About Surrogacy

Surrogacy is a life-changing journey that allows intended parents to grow their families with the help of surrogate mothers. However, many people misunderstand the process, leading to common misconceptions about surrogacy.

At GSHC Surrogacy Agency, we are committed to educating potential surrogates and intended parents to ensure a transparent and informed experience. Below, we debunk eight common surrogacy myths and provide accurate information to help you understand the truth about surrogacy.

1. Surrogates Give Up Their Own Baby

This is probably the biggest misunderstanding. In gestational surrogacy, which is the most common type, the surrogate isn’t biologically related to the baby at all. The embryo is made using the intended parents’ or donors’ egg and sperm—the surrogate’s role is to carry the pregnancy, not to provide her own genetic material.

2. Surrogates Can Change Their Mind and Keep the Baby

This fear comes up often, but the truth is: everything is agreed upon before the process begins. There are legal contracts in place to protect everyone, and the intended parents are recognized as the baby’s legal parents from the start. Everyone involved understands their role before any medical steps happen.

3. Surrogacy Is Only for Celebrities or the Wealthy

Surrogacy does involve costs, but it’s not just for the rich and famous. Many everyday people—teachers, nurses, small business owners—grow their families through surrogacy. Some get help from insurance or employer benefits, and many agencies offer payment plans or financing options.

4. Surrogates Only Do It for Money

Compensation is part of the process, but it’s far from the whole story. Most surrogates say they chose this path because they love being pregnant and want to help others experience the joy of parenthood. The money helps with expenses and supports their own families, but it’s the emotional reward that sticks with them.

5. Only Women Who Cannot Conceive Use Surrogacy

Infertility is one reason, but not the only one. Some intended parents have medical conditions that make pregnancy dangerous. Same-sex couples and single parents also turn to surrogacy to have children that are biologically related to them.

6. Surrogacy Is Legal Everywhere

Surrogacy laws depend on where you live. Some states and countries welcome it with clear laws; others don’t allow it at all. That’s why it’s important to work with an experienced agency like GSHC—we make sure everyone is matched in places where surrogacy is fully legal and protected.

7. Surrogacy Is an Easy Process

It’s a rewarding journey, but not a simple one. Surrogates go through medical screening, fertility treatments, legal reviews, and months of pregnancy—all while staying in close communication with the intended parents and the agency. It takes heart, patience, and commitment.

8. Any Woman Can Become a Surrogate

Not quite. There are strict qualifications to keep everyone safe. Surrogates usually need to be between 21 and 40 years old, have had at least one healthy pregnancy, be in good physical and mental health, and meet BMI and lifestyle requirements. Agencies screen thoroughly to make sure every candidate is a good fit.

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